This is going to be a post which is very personal to me and which is described entirely based on my own perspective. Hope you like it 🙂
Who decides your rules?
Who does your moral policing?
Is it those who support modernization or is it the bunch of people who are still stuck in the zone where they are not able to accept any change?
Is it those who consider wearing a crop-top a sin while wearing a saree is decent even though the extent of exposure is same!!!?
Is it those who rip us naked with their looks in case they found us wearing something below the knees?
(Omg!! You need to take care of your clothes such that those people don’t comment about you!!
Oh yeah!! Why not wear a Burkha that covers you all-over? Oh no!! If you have a bigger bust, then even that would not help !! Chuck-it, you just need to ignore or probably get used to those creepy looks!! )
Coming back to those people who design the moral policing for our beloved society,
Is it those who look down on an unmarried 30-yr old happy independent woman?
Is it those who start pestering parents to get a ladka for their beti as soon as she graduates?
Is it those who judge a woman’s character by the length of her dress?
Is it those who are completely fine with a guy wearing a boxer and walking on the street but who are, at the same time, not fine with a girl doing that?
Is it those who try to curb the enthusisasm of an ambitious woman?
Is it those who try to silence the voice of any outspoken woman who is trying to fight for her rights?
Is it those who judge a woman’s character if she smokes or drinks?
Is it those who make it difficult for anyone to take up any offbeat profession?
(You know, there are too many people offering you free advices!! They find interest in what you are up to than thinking about how to improve themselves!! )
Is it those who blindly assume that a girl has to compromise with her interests when she is getting married?
Is it those who feel that the guy is doing a favour to the girl while marrying by accepting huge amount of dowry?
I don’t understand the extent to which these people dictate society moral policing. Even though, there are a really brilliant set of people trying to change the perspective of this society, it is only these ill-minded people who have a larger voice in declaring what is morally right and what is absolutely wrong.
Can we change this for good?
A Woman who strives to stand out in the mad crowd!!
These might seem like an everyday thing and many of you might be ignoring it. But, for me, as a person who found passion in fashion blogging (an interest which is significantly different from what people do in the society my parents live in), it is really getting frustrating to think about my moves just because my parents think that my so-called well wishers open my blog / FB / Instagram and start cribbing behind my back about my clothes rather than directly questioning me.
So, to all such people who pretend to be my well-wishers rather than being one in reality, if you are reading this post, an advice may be – I guess you have a better life to deal with!! Invest time wisely, more for yourselves and probably less for others 🙂
And to all other lovely people, a sincere thanks for believing in my work. I promise to deliver much more inspiring content in fashion, travel and life 🙂
The support you guys keep showing me, could be in terms of the messages you send or the comments or likes, that’s what keep my passion and me going. Even though, I couldn’t thank you personally, I genuinely feel so grateful for your love.
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